They just died

How do I remember them? I want to write about their last days

What people do around the world

In the news

Toronto Humane Society shared a free 6-week writing workshop for people who lost a pet. A vet and writer led it. People wrote about their memories, shared their feelings, and met others with the same loss.

Toronto Humane Society
An owner・Latin America
「In old age he walked slower, then lost feeling in his back legs. Treatment didn't help. He's been gone two weeks.」
UK

Join a memorial walk on National Pet Memorial Day

on 13 September each year, the RSPCA invites people to walk in memory of their pets

RSPCA
An owner・English-speaking
「My long-haired dachshund passed at about 19. I wrote this to remember him.」
An owner・English-speaking
「My border collie, just over 16, left us today. I shared photos from her whole life.」
UK

Plant a tree in the garden, or put together a photo album or videos

suggested by the vet charity PDSA

PDSA
An owner・English-speaking
「My dog of fifteen years passed at home. I regret leaving her out when I wrote about my hardest years.」
New Zealand

Make a memory box or scrapbook with their collar, toys and photos

suggested by the animal welfare charity SPCA

SPCA New Zealand
An owner・English-speaking
「My Bernese mountain dog, who couldn't walk in his last years, died on Sunday, and I'm remembering him.」
An owner・English-speaking
「I set up a Day of the Dead altar for my greyhound who has passed.」
An owner・English-speaking
「Three weeks ago I said goodbye to my dog, who almost made it to 17, and I'm posting to remember him.」
An owner・English-speaking
「My dog passed away yesterday, and I'm sharing her photos to remember her.」
Mexico

Set up a Day of the Dead altar with their photo, toys and treats

A Mexican tradition. In the US, some people keep one night just for pets

IOL / The Washington Post

Updated 29 Oct 2026.

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