They are still here

They are still here, but I am already terrified of losing them. Is that normal?

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A UK study of 667 pet owners found this early grief was most common with old or chronically ill pets. One woman said she woke at night, anxious about losing her dog.

Flinders University
UK

Take your dog to a favorite walk while you can

shared by a Blue Cross pet bereavement worker

Cruse Bereavement Support
An owner・English-speaking
「I've already lost two dogs, and now my 10-year-old has a malignant tumor. I'm turning to my faith.」
An owner・English-speaking
「My dog's kidney disease is stage three, and the vet says three to six months are left. I'm already grieving and exhausted.」
South Korea

Join a government course for owners of aging pets

pilot in Seoul, Daejeon and Gumi in 2026

The Herald Business
Organisation

Coping with the grief and loss of a pet

PDSA
An owner・Latin America
「My 17-year-old dog is getting weaker. She's still here, but I'm already grieving.」
Oct 2026
An owner・Latin America
「My dog of 13 years is in the hospital, and I'm too sad to focus on anything.」
Oct 2026
An owner・Latin America
「I'm worried my dog's cancer may have spread, and I'm scared to find out the test results.」
Oct 2026
An owner・Latin America
「I'm afraid my dog won't come home from the hospital this time; I don't want to accept it and won't go sign for euthanasia.」
Oct 2026
An owner・Latin America
「One of my dogs just died, and I pray my other dog stays with me a few more years.」
Oct 2026

Updated 29 Oct 2026.

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