They are still here

How do I stay with them on the day?

What people do around the world

In the news

In summer 2025, Penn Vet's Ryan Hospital in the US reopened its renovated Comfort Room, a home-like space with couches and dimmable lights, most often used for euthanasia. It sits near a rear exit so families can leave without crossing the lobby, and the social work team meets families there.

University of Pennsylvania School of Veterinary Medicine
An owner・English-speaking
「We did everything we could. Tomorrow we have to let her go.」
UK

Bring family or a friend

PDSA advice

PDSA
An owner・English-speaking
「After 14 and a half years together, I let my dog go peacefully today. I didn't want him to suffer more.」
UK

A few minutes alone afterward

PDSA usually offers this

PDSA
An owner・English-speaking
「I can't watch her suffer anymore. Tomorrow I'll let her go peacefully, and I'm falling apart.」
UK

Bring your other pets

some people do this

PDSA
An owner・English-speaking
「On Monday I'm letting my beloved dog be put to sleep, and the thought of losing him hurts so much.」
US

Say goodbye at home

some vets offer home euthanasia

American Humane
An owner・English-speaking
「This morning I stayed by my dog's side until the end.」
An owner・English-speaking
「Today might be my last day with my dog, and I'm sad my dog won't see me finish my degree.」
An owner・English-speaking
「Today is my very old dog's euthanasia day, and I want to make it a really good last day.」
US

Give each family member time alone

American Humane advice

American Humane
An owner・English-speaking
「I spent the afternoon at my cousins' house to say goodbye to their dog before tomorrow's euthanasia.」
An owner・English-speaking
「My dog's dementia has gotten worse, so we are letting my dog go this weekend.」

Updated 29 Oct 2026.

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