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Ashes and goodbyes

What can I do with the ashes? Do I need to decide now?

If you want the ashes back, choose an individual cremation. After that, you can take your time deciding whether to keep, bury or scatter them.

For: The first week, The first month 2 owners asked about this

A real example

A 61-year-old man held the 49th-day memorial for his dog, then buried its bones in a grave at a temple in Setagaya, Tokyo. The temple holds a joint memorial service every month.

News, The Japan News(讀賣新聞)/Asia News Network, 1 Apr 2025Read the original

What others said

「It has been nine months, and I plan to bury my dog's ashes in the garden of our new home.」

Shared online (reworded) forum, Europe, Oct 2026

「My dog lived to 16 years and 7 months, and afterward I waited until spring for a tree burial.」

Shared online (reworded) Asia-Pacific, Oct 2026

What people do in different places

Take the ashes home firstTaiwan: most people, a Hualien firm says
Place them in a columbariumTaiwan: some leave them in a columbarium
Bury them at a templeJapan: some temples allow burial with owners
Bury them in your gardenGermany: own land only; check local rules
Place them on a Day of the Dead altarMexico, October 27
Bury them in a public pet tree-burial areaDouliu, Taiwan: NT$2,000 per plot
Put them in a keepsakee.g. a memory jar (our product)

Sources

The Japan News: More owners in Japan hold funerals for petsNews, The Japan News(讀賣新聞)/Asia News Network, 1 Apr 2025
dpa: My pet has died. Can I bury it in the garden?News, leinetal24(德新社 dpa 稿), 27 Sep 2017
AP: Pets join Mexico's Day of the Dead altarsNews, 美聯社 AP(KUTV 轉載), 2 Nov 2024
2 posts from owners online: reworded and anonymised, showing only the platform, region and month. We keep the original links privately.

Updated 25 Oct 2026. This page updates daily from owners’ posts.

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